Thursday, April 23, 2009

April 23, 2009

Yesterday I woke up extra early and actually took some time getting ready—as in I didn’t just throw on whatever appears sorta clean and run out the door. I was going to meet my new counterpart! His boss had called me a few days ago and asked me to take him around to introduce him to all the families of the children that receive INFA scholarships that he will be working with. Since my previous counterpart is gone, I am the only one who knows where most of these people live. (Addresses do not exist here.)

After waiting for this person for half an hour I became quite indignant. This person is new at his job. He needs my help. I am the only one who knows where everyone lives. I am integrated into my community. I have work. I don’t need him. He needs me! How dare he not show up! I later learned that this guy hasn’t shown up to anything this past week. He just got the job on Friday! I’m not going to lie. I hope he doesn’t last. Unfortunately, he is good friends with the boss. That means a lot here—a lot more than experience and qualifications.

After I got fed up with waiting for this guy I went to make copies of the flyer describing my reading club so I could pass them out around town. I then had to go to one of the schools because a teacher had a meeting with the parents of her students and had invited me to speak to them about my club. It went pretty well. The parents seemed pretty supportive and interested.

Every Wednesday I tutor English at the library, so I spent the afternoon doing that. Tutoring English is extremely exhausting. I passed out almost as soon as I got home.

Today the librarian and I went to another school to talk to them about our club. More interest. I just hope it doesn’t get too big! In the afternoon I went to Machala with a lady from my community to price shop for an amp and more fans for the library. I think I found the amp I want to buy. Now I just want to run it by the librarian to make sure it is what she wants. With any luck I can purchase them within the next week. I will probably buy children’s books with any remaining money.

April 21, 2009

Today was an incredibly busy, but rewarding day. It started when the librarian and I went to one of the schools to talk to the students about the reading club we are starting. We went to the 4th-6th grade classrooms and explained to the children how our club will work. Once a week our club will meet in the library to do activities related to books. At the end of each meeting, members will have the opportunity to take home a book to read during their free time—this will encourage the children to perceive reading as a fun activity and not an obligatory task. Upon completion of the book, club members will write short summaries of the books—this will improve children’s ability to think about what they have read and explain what happened in their own words. Those members who reach the monthly book goal set by the group at the beginning of each month will receive prizes—this will provide the initial incentive for them to read until they learning how wonderful reading can be. I am really excited about this club. Everyone has been extremely supportive of it.

Anyway, after I discussed the club with the students, the librarian read them a story that my mother had sent me. The kids really enjoyed it! The librarian had so much fun reading the books that she went to the younger grades to read them the stories too. I do have to admit, the librarian is great at reading stories to children.

By the time I finally dragged the librarian out of the school, we had to rush to the Municipal of Machala to follow up on the informe we submitted yesterday. The Municipal promised my town free internet in the library as part of an agreement with the previous volunteer. And until February, one of the computers did have internet. Then the Municipal sent someone to connect all three computers to the internet and that person ended up screwing something up so that none of the computers would connect. I have spent the past 2 months trying to get the problem resolved, with no success. Please keep your fingers crossed that this inquiry will produce results!

Once we were done, the librarian and I went to several stores to see about buying an amp for the librarian. I still have a little over $400 left from the money the previous volunteer raised oh so long ago. Since it has been such a long time since the previous volunteer came up with a list of things to buy, I decided to make my own list with the remaining money. I met with several mothers and the librarian yesterday to discuss what we should buy and came to the decision to first buy an amp and two fans. Then we will see how much money is left. The librarian had great fun testing out different amps to use. It was nice to see her so happy!

Once I got back to my town, I went to visit the mothers of my small visit to see how things are coming along and discuss a few money issues. Then I went to the library to write a notice about our club that I can pass out tomorrow. It turned out pretty good and didn’t have too many errors. I’m pretty proud of it!

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Note: This blog took about two hours to write because I happened to notice yet another mouse hiding around my fridge. I freaked out. Then tried to catch it. Failed. When back to writing. Freaked out some more. Tried to catch the mouse again. Failed. Called my neighbor for help. Failed to find it. Went back to writing. Saw the mouse. Trapped it in my bathroom. Armed myself with my broom and entered the battle zone. Killed the mouse!!!!!!!!!!! Finished writing this blog.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

April 19, 2009

I have water!!!! … Sort of.

Today I was awoken to the sound of water gushing from my taps. It was a truly wonderful sound. A few days ago, a pump broke and my entire town was left without running water. It was not fun. Since I only ever have running water in the morning, I was fortunate enough to have a bit of water on reserve but not fortunate enough to have enough to last me until the water problem was resolved. My wonderful neighbors were kind enough to give me a bucket of their precious water to shower with. I was extremely grateful… until I found worm-like creatures living in it. Not exactly something one hopes to see in their bathing water.

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The big election in Ecuador is coming up in a week and every position from the president of Ecuador to the president of my town is up for election. As a Peace Corps Volunteer, I am not allowed to get involved in politics. I will therefore only say this one thing: I wish that politicians in general (US politicians are guilty of this too) would spend a lot less money on flyers and block parties, and a lot more money on paving roads, improving schools, and making sure everyone has running water. Campaign promises start to loose their charm after decades of going unfulfilled.

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My counterpart quit this week. She got a better job in a town four hours away. I was really sad to see her go. She was my only Ecuadorian friend that was my age. However, it was a great opportunity for her. She is extremely bright and motivated, but was toiling at a job that had very little room for advancement. I’ve heard her replacement has already been chosen. I’m kind of nervous about meeting this new person. What if he (I heard it was a he) is lazy? What if he is unreliable? Fortunately, I am busy with my work in the library and integrated enough to feel comfortable starting up solo projects. The librarian and I are working on starting up a reading club that I hope to have running by June. I also went to two school this very week to talk to the principals about my teaching sex ed in the classrooms. I am supposed to go back to the schools on Tuesday. I guess it doesn’t matter too much what my new counterpart is like. Still, I am nervous.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

April 12, 2009

Dear Mom’s Book Club Ladies,

In the last several weeks I have become the most popular person on the block. All the children know me and visit me regularly. And when I say regularly, I mean almost every hour. Now while I would like to think my recent heightened popularity is a result of my winning personality, good looks, or intelligence, deep down I know there is another reason. I have games!

I want to thank you all for your generous monetary contributions. With the money you raised, my mother was able to bring me down lots of games—Checkers, Trouble, Chutes and Ladders, Slinkys, Frisbees, Magnadoodles, Memory, Dominoes… I could go on and on. Most of my neighbors live hand to mouth. Few children have toys other than the occasional soccer ball. My horde of games is extremely exciting for them.

I have been slowly introducing the games into my community. First, I brought out the board games. The kids loved them. They were constantly hounding me for the games. Scared that the kids would lose pieces of the games, I donated them to the library. That way the kids could play them there and the pieces wouldn’t get lost.

Then a few days ago, a couple kids came over to color with me. Soon another came, and then another. Before long I had about ten kids in my house. To get them outside, I broke out the rest of my games—the Frisbees, jump ropes, slinkys, magnadoodles, balls, etc. My only condition was they return all the games in the afternoon. To my surprise, they brought them all back.

We have continued this pattern every day since: I lend out the games in the morning and they bring them all back in the afternoon.

Today, I was awaken at 8:30 by a group of children calling out “Señorita Katalina!” (I go by Katalina because they can’t say Kaitlyn.)

As I tried to not make any noise in the hopes they would leave, I heard them say, “Has she left?”

“I haven’t seen her leave.”

“Where is she?”

“Señorita Katalina!”

I really am very popular.

So on behalf of ‘my kids,’ thank you very much! You have brought a huge amount of joy to some incredible children. As they say, Dios le paga—May God repay you.

Sincerely,

Kaitlyn

Sunday, April 12, 2009

April 11, 2009

The creature turned out to be a mouse. I managed to trap it, but when I tried to let it go free outside my house, I ended up killing it. Whoops! Needless to say, I was completely 100% freaked out.

On Thursday, one of the girls who had visited me the day before came again. I invited her cousins and her to come and color. Soon another kid came, then another, and another. Before long my house was filled with kids. I then gave them some games my parents brought me and sent them outside, making them promise me that they would bring them back in the afternoon. I actually did get them all back! I am grateful to my parents for bring all these games. I really am! I am currently the most popular person on the block. But as the most popular person, I rarely get left alone. Sigh. The price of popularity!

Then I went with one of the mothers of my small business to Machala to buy ingredients for making another batch of disinfectant. We picked out four new scents for our next batch: pine, strawberry, sea breeze, and green apple. Hopefully they will be a success.

I spent most of Good Friday with the same neighbor I spent Carnival with and her family. I got to try fanesca—a soup filled with fish and many different types of beans that Ecuadorians make on Good Friday. It was pretty good. Then they made humitas, another typical food made with ground corn and cooked in the leaves. It was a lot of work, and I wasn’t very good at it. Especially, at folding the dough into the leaves. I guess the humita business they wanted me to start up when I return to the States isn’t going to happen.

I spent this morning pulling weeds and removing rocks in my ‘garden.’ Right now it is pretty ugly, but I want to eventually plant some flowers. I bunch of neighborhood kids came to help me. I like to think that they simply wanted to help me—and I am sure a few of them really did—but I got a lot more help when I promised to lend out my games. It is about time I took advantage of my popularity!

This afternoon the mothers and I made the disinfectant. It turned out well. I am proud to report that we have 37 more bottles to sell! Yay!

April 8, 2009

This morning I went to Machala to donate the few clothing items that I did not give away yesterday to a shelter for victims of human trafficking. When I returned, two of the girls that received clothing came over to my house to hang out. They both live in a really remote barrio that is pretty far from town and very poor. So it was a special treat for them to come over. We baked sugar cookies and colored. I sent them home with a container full of fresh cookie and a toy each to play with. I told them they could bring back the toys and Tupperware when they visited me again, which we planned for next Tuesday afternoon.

After the girls left, I had another meeting with the mothers of the small business my counterpart started. (We are making and selling disinfectant for the bathroom and kitchen,) We decided to make another batch of disinfectant for Monday because there are two reunions of women to whom we can sell our product to.

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The worst part about living alone is that when I discover that I am not quite as alone as I had thought (as in certain insects are living with me), there is no one to kill them but myself. As I write this, something is living under my fridge. I am afraid. Very afraid.

April 7, 2009

For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Kaitlyn. I was once an active member of the Kirk of Kildaire—a regular at Youth Group and Sunday school, a member of Covenant Ringers, and a helper in the nursery. But God has called me elsewhere, and I now reside as a Peace Corps Volunteer in a small community in coastal Ecuador. It is hot, dusty, dirty, poor, and as my mother called it during her recent visit—depressing. But, I love it. It has become my home.

The purpose of this letter is to thank you all for your generous clothing donations and to tell you all about a bit the people that they went to. A few weeks ago, my mother and my father came to visit me. We hadn’t seen each other in nine months, the longest we have ever gone with out seeing each other. As you can imagine, it was an emotional reunion. They brought with them, in addition to their own belongings, two large fifty pound suitcases full of clothes. Today, one of my Ecuadorian friends and I went to the poorest sections of my town to give beautiful, new or lightly used clothing to families without floors, running water, four solid walls.

Gisella is a bright and friendly girl who I have taught to read. She used to not be able to read her homework instructions. We are now reading Charlotte’s Web together. She lives with her mother, stepfather, and four of her brother and sisters in a small cement room. A curtain separates the ‘bedroom’ where they all sleep together from the kitchen. They don’t have running water or there own bathroom. They have to share a communal sink and bathroom with their neighbors. Every child received several shirts and pairs of shorts. Three of them received shoes.

Jocelin is an 11-year old friend of mine to whom I taught swimming lessons. When she began she was afraid to leave the shallow end. When I finished with her, she was swimming laps. Jocelin lives with her parents and younger brother in a small house made of sticks. They don’t have a floor and when they want to enter the house after they’ve locked the door, Jocelin has to crawl through the window and open it from the inside. Jocelin and her brother each received two new outfits which they proudly modeled for me.

Wilson is an energetic, twelve-year old sweetheart. He loves to play soccer and brings a soccer ball wherever he goes. Sadly, his parents are separated and his father does not send his mother child support. His mother can’t afford to support Wilson and his brother and sister. She wants to take Wilson out of school and send him to work on the banana plantations. He is going to end up working there anyway, so what does it matter if he can read or write? Wilson, his siblings, his two cousins that live with him all received new clothes.

Marina is a kind and generous woman who has five children. She used to be a runner, and won several trophies in her youth that she proudly showed us. She stays at home to care for the house and children. She doesn’t have very much, but kindly offered my friend and I breakfast. Since I hadn’t eaten and it is rude to decline food, I accepted. I was treated to a huge breakfast that I couldn’t finish. Each of her children received several clothing items. Her youngest, who had been wearing shoes that he complained “hurt his bones” because they were too small, received shoes.

Elena is a young mother that I met while chatting outside with my neighbor a few days ago. She is a refugee from Colombia who recently moved to my town. She fled her country with barely anything but her three children in tow. She has no friends and family here to help her, nor has she been able to find a job yet. All her children received new clothing.

Maria is nineteen years old and recently gave birth to a baby girl. When she found out she was pregnant, she married the baby’s father. Neither her family nor her new in-laws have the space or the money to welcome a new into their family, so the two newlyweds live separately. A month before her baby was born, her husband was in a terrible motorcycle and had to be taken to Guayaquil, the largest city it Ecuador and about 3 hours away, for treatment. He has not yet seen his month-old baby daughter. They new mother gratefully accepted several clothing items and a pretty baby blanket for her daughter.

In total, seventeen families where helped with the clothes that I have received so-far. More clothes are on their way. On behalf of the people of my community, thank you so very much! You have relieved many parents’ burden to clothe their children and you have given many children new clothes to be proud of. As they say in Ecuador Dios le paga- God pays you.

Yours in Christ,

Kaitlyn

Sunday, April 5, 2009

April 5, 2009

My parents left on Thursday. I was really sad to see them go, but we had a wonderful visit. When they came, they flew into Guayaquil, which is the largest city of Ecuador and about 3 hours north of me. They didn’t arrive until the evening, but I went up early to test out the hotel—make sure the bed was soft enough, the water hot enough, and the cable sufficient enough…. Solely, of course, for my parents’ benefit. In the evening I went to the airport with the hotel shuttle to pick them up. Our reunion, as you could imagine, was very emotional.

We spent our first few days together happily wondering around downtown Guayaquil. We ate out at nice restaurants, bought a few souvenirs, and visited some museums and landmarks. My favorite spot was the iguana park—a one square block park that was full of iguanas. It also had several squirrels, which were a lot more exciting for the Ecuadorians and me. Iguanas are fairly common on the coast of Ecuador, but squirrels are not native to South America. I hadn’t seen one since I left the States. Shockingly enough, my mother wasn’t so impressed with the squirrels. She preferred the giant iguanas. Go figure.

The next stop on our agenda was the Galapagos. I must say that it was the highlight of our trip. If you ever have the opportunity to go, I highly recommend it. It was gorgeous—crystal clear waters, breathtaking landscapes, and tons of interesting wildlife. We stayed on a luxurious yacht and every morning we woke up at a new island. The guide and crew were amazing. Every time we left the boat, someone would make our beds and every time we got back on there would be food waiting for us. Besides my parents and I, there were twelve other passengers on the boat. It was a good size, very intimate. Everyone was very friendly and we got along great.

My favorite part of the trip was seeing all the sea lions and snorkeling. By the way, I've decided that I want to be a sea lion in my next life. They've got it pretty good there. The snorkeling was incredible. We were able to see all sorts of colorful fish, sea turtles, starfish, and even some sharks. My only regret was not bringing an underwater camera. You’ll have to take my word for it when I say it was incredible.

After the Galapagos, we returned to my site. Let's just say it was a bit of a shock for my parents to go from these incredibly pristine islands to a town that is... well... not so pristine. I think my mom was in shock the first day. She described my site as 'depressing.' Awww :(

The next few days were better. After they got over the initial shock, I introduced them to a few friends and m
y host family. Although constantly translating (my parents don't speak Spanish and no one in my site speaks English) was a bit tiring, my parents really appreciated meeting some people who have been looking out for me. They were really impressed with the generosity of some of the Ecuadorians. One of my neighbors took a whole day of his time to drive us 2 hours there and back on the worst roads EVER to see a petrified forest. The forest was interesting, but definitely not worth the drive. My parents were so impressed that anyone would willingly offer to do that for some strangers. Afterwards, he took us to see his shrimp farm. Since shrimp is a major export where I live, it was definitely interesting to see the process of raising shrimp.

Overall, I think my parents had a wonderful time and got to see a lot of Ecuador. They day before they were to leave we returned to Guayaquil. Then on Thursday morning we piled into a cab. They dropped me off at the bus stop and then went to the airport. It was really hard to say goodbye knowing I won’t see them until Christmas. I think the first time was easier—I had Peace Corps, Ecuador, and a new life to look forward to. Now it is all routine and I know it will be another 9 months till I see the. Still, I am happy here and no there is no where else that I would rather be.